Letters, diaries and photographs from World War II

Bethany Askew

Wharncliffe

22nd November 1945

Darling,

Things are just a bit hectic just at the moment so I’ll describe them.

Yesterday we got told that the special parade due for Saturday is to be a Brigadier’s Inspection and s on Friday it is to be a dress rehearsal for Saturday and hence two parades instead of one. There is no doubt at all that we need a lot of practice if it is to look any good.

well, when I got home last night I found your mother in bed with a stiff cold, nothing in my opinion to worry about but the lady tends to be cautious. So I had to set about getting my supper: vegetable soup, meat pie and baked beans, and it went down very well. Of course, had I been warned I’d have had my meal out.

I really got stuck into those prices for the business last night. There There is a lot of work to be done before I can produce a good price list. First a Master one, then one that can be used in the shop. But I’m finding it very interesting and it’s getting me ready for coming back to the shop.

But to continue my story: when I got here tis morning and had a look at parade and train times and consider that I would have to get my own meal if I went home I thought it better to remain at Woolwich, if you can imagine it.

I’d got everything I needed except my boots when my eyes lighted upon Lt.Ross’s boots and in less than no time he was wearing my shoes and I his. (They fit me much better than Stephen’s).

Then I discovered that I was contravening regulations by having mt=y medal ribbons on a bar so I slipped them off, slipped in a thin piece of celluloid and got Mrs.Lovery to sew it on again (She is the typist).

So as I had to remain in Woolwich I’ve taken over the Guard so that the other chap could go out. It was the only way I could find a bed for the night annd he sure I was up in plenty of time for this damned parade.

News flash: the C.O. is in hospital and so the Brigadier’s inspection is off but the dress rehearsal for tomorrow is on. What a life! I hope there is a pea soup fog.

By the way we get tortoiseshell frames from a company called “Ocentric” and purchase tax is 100% so that bill would seem to be OK as I found a similar bill for September (be sure it hasn’t been paid already).

You say Anthony came up in a rash with camphorated oil. I gather this isn’t unusual, it should go in a couple of days and it will only be where I rubbed it in. But in future PHONE if worried my darling.

All my love is yours and Anthony’s.

Take care

And I’m all your,

Johnnie xxxx

Wharncliffe

20th November 1945

Darling Janie,

The motto is:  “Two weeks on Saturday”

Sorry I didn’t write yesterday sweetheart but I really had quite a lot to get on with and then a parade at 7pm at Brookhill Barracks. As a result I didn’t get home until 9.15pm.

Apparently the Officer in Charge had done an inspection on Saturday and the place was shocking. So he called us to a conference on Monday morning prior to an inspection of billets. The upshot of the conference was that I am now a Platoon Commander of the men that work down at the dockyards. It doesn’t amount to much as Lt.Ross will cover my Saturday morning inspection of billets. But I shall have to take parades. These don’t happen very often. But unfortunately there is one next Saturday.

It was a grand run to Taunton in that bus. I think I saw more than if I’d been in a car. Got to Taunton an hour early so I went for a walk and looked in the shops. The train was twenty minutes late but I managed to get a seat as we had a pair of yelling twins as far as Estuary.

I ate all of the chocolate and some of the sandwiches but went easy as I knew there would be another hot meal awaiting me home here.

I only seem to have let one important thing behind and that darling is my pe. Well you please send it along? 

I’m wondering how Anthony got along at school and if the cough was affected and how is your cold darling?

In spite of the fact that the weekend was supposed to be a business trip I good so enjoy it. You know for the first time I began to feel that Anthony really was my son and it was a very warm and pleasant feeling. I really feel that seeing you and then leaving and looking forward to the next trip is far better than being re-patriated and de-mobbed all at once.

I am able to analyse my visits afterwards and adjust myself for the next meeting and I expect you and Anthony are doing the same. Thus (I feel) that last weekend we were more the ideal family than we were on the previous occasions. How do you feel about it?

I’ll stop now as I have a lot to get on with—

All my love is yours my own darling and Anthony’s.

Take care and give me a ring if you are feeling blue (in spite of the letter)

And I’m your very own,

Johnnie xxxx

Wharncliffe

15th November 1945

Darling Janie,

Just a line confirming that I hope to be down on the last train on Friday night.

As I said I’ll find my own way home. I’m not bringing anything with me except a shaving brush, razor and a toothbrush—and a lot of love.

Two nights together, oh boy, oh boy…

All my love to you both,

Your own,

Johnnie xxxx

Wharncliffe

13th November 1945

Darling Janie,

Just a short note together with a copy of the letter I want you to type for me to Taylors of Exeter to assist me, as you will see, in the accurate compilation of a price list.

I don’t know about Saturday morning yet as I hear there is a special parade on and of course it will be assumed that I’m dodging it.

Before I forget sweetheart please go easy on that telephone. I really don’t want another £15 bill to pay, much as I like hearing your voice. Please try and use the cheap period—jot down what you’re going to say so that we can be quick. No. I don’t want to be quick when I’m talking to you and don’t I wish that we were well enough off to be able to disregard these expenses. When you’ve read this I’m sure you are going to think I’m terribly mean.

I’m sorry Anthony’s cough is troublesome again. Do you give him Scott’s emulsion because of the cod liver oil in it? Because if so halibut liver oil is now considered to be far more useful (about 80% stronger and so much easier to take). Just my little suggestion for what it is worth darling.

 

 

 

You know I don’t worry about him when I know that you are around for I know that he is getting all the attention that he needs.

We are getting on very well here, your father and I and there is no need for your mother to hurry home at all. I have lunch and dinner in the Mess and for breakfast I have cornflakes and toast and Bovril. When I got home last night your father made a fire. You could come into the place at any time and it’s not really untidy. We tidy up as we go along and so it’s very little trouble.

I’m going to see John Pickford tomorrow evening to try and get the future straightened out as far as we are able so that we have some idea of whee we stand financially.

Is David staying with you or is it just a call? If David offers to live down there with you to do his study and keep you company, as did Russell, will you be able to accept? I do hope so. I don’t think you’d find him useless any more. He’ll be able to pull his weight.

Well, that’s all for now, my love. See you at the weekend for a few minutes I hope. They will be very sweet minutes.

All my love is yours my sweetheart, take great care of both of you and I do love you.

Your very own,

Johnnie xxxx

Wharnclffe
8th November 1945

Darling Janie,
What a dull place the flat can be without you there to greet me. Roll on freedom when I can always reckon that you are waiting at home for me and best of all in our home.
Thank you darling for leaving the place all ready for me. Auntie Lizzie called in to see if David had gone and didn’t seem to know that you had gone as well so she talked to me instead and insisted on leaving half a bottle of milk for me so you can see we love each other again.
I cleared off early yesterday to get to the BOA library. After that I went on to Bowmans but was too late. If I can remember I’ll go along there on Saturday week if I don’t decide to come and see you. They open on Saturday afternoons.
How is the cold darling? Pop thought you were better at lunch time. My face ache has nearly gone. How did you find out little boy?
Don’t forget darling there is no hurry for your mother to return. Get yourself settled down first. We managed fine yesterday and as I’m dining here tonight I’ll have nothing to do when I get back.
All my love is yours my sweetheart and thank you for a beautiful two weeks.
Your own,
Johnnie xxxx

Wharncliffe

15th October 1945

My Darling,

It’s been great listening to your voice on the phone. You sounded so cheerful and at the same time so loving.

Yes, only this evening I got a couple of the tickets for ‘Gay Rosalinda” for Monday only to get home and find a letter saying you may not come until after the weekend. Of course, if that course is made necessary I can alter the day I expect.

Oh, while I think of it, that letter to the barrister: tell Gordon to be careful how he starts things with those chaps for they can get very spiteful and they know the law inside out. In any case it’s never wise to write cross letters to customers, too much pride can cause a load of trouble.

Did I tell you that last week John Davies appeared at church in the company of Hilda Rowe? The same phenomenon occurred yesterday and your mother swears that they are holding hands. Things are getting thicker but he has o go back to Germany in a day or so.

I was asked to do seat steward again. I said I’d be glad to but that it would have to be arranged at the last moment as I never know when I was likely to be posted.

I had a card from an antique book seller (addressed to my dad) informing him that they had details of the pedigree and arms of the Askew family of Lancashire, price nine shillings and sixpence. So of course I coughed up my money and am now awaiting the results. It starts 1547, the year after Anne Askew was martyred. Of course, it may nor bec our family but I thought it would be rather fun to look it up.

‘Fantasia’ is on at Studio One. Have you seen it yet? If not, we might go along.

I’m dying to hear about Rosie’s wedding.

Do you know, I can I can hardly wait until Saturday. I am so looking forward to seeing you.

All my love is yours, my sweetheart and our little boy’s 

And I’m still your own,

Johnnie xxxx 

Duty Officers’ Room

13th October 1945

My Darling Janie,

Well, your mother has agreed to toddle down on Friday and although we haven’t received definite confirmation from you we are working on those lines.

I won’t be able to come down to get you my sweetheart although I shall be on the station, with open arms, waiting for your arrival. I don’t want to take any leave of the special variety until I have the result of the Price Regulation business for if anything goes wrong I may have to ask for tine off then. I’m not expecting anything to go wrong but one can’t be too careful.

You won’t have to bring very much luggage will you sweet? One case will surely suffice. I will wait until you get here before I decide when to take my next leave, about the end of November. I say. Darling, it’s a absolutely wizard thought to feel that you might be with me this time next week even though it is in a barracks.

To bring me back to earth and while I think of it, I’m not getting the various optical journals regularly. In fact I ain’t getting them at all. Be so good as to mail them to me Darling when Gordon has finished with them. Today we started in ophthalmic optics class. There are five of us at the moment. We have laid out a syllabus and each take it in turns to lecture on a pre-arranged subject. I start the ball rolling next Saturday.

When I turned up to go on duty I met John Westbrook and his little French wife. She is quite an attractive little thing. He was going around trying to discover local digs so that he could get a sleeping-out pass. She’s obviously fed up with going to and from Camberley without him to London. She works at the French Legation and having to live without him, very much a stranger in a strange country, poor little thing, try and imagine it. She was telling me what a wonderful place Istanbul was.

The sergeants want me to go to their mess tonight and as it’s cold here I’ll drift across.

Well, my sweetheart, roll on Saturday, I can hardly wait. All my love is yours my sweetheart and our little boy’s.

Take great care.

I love you,

Your very own,

Johnnie xxxx

Wharncliffe 

4th October 1945

Darling,

Just a line enclosing the shoe permit. Please ask Russell to collect my shoes from Ridlers.

Raymond was here last evening and we had a long pow-wow together. Of course he asked after you both.

Girlie and Daphne got safely to Parkstone and today Girlie will be going to the pre-natal clinic and then they may establish when the infant is to arrive. They seem ti be in some doubt, December 8th or 25th.

Ray turned up in civvies, the ones he just got from the demob depot. The suit and shoes were good, the shirt fair and the tie lousy. Roll on the day when I put mine on. He had a suit of dark grey with a light stripe.

Girlie heard from David about three weeks ago but there was no real news to pass on, a usual David letter and no idea when he is coming back.

I’ve been throwing my weight about today and have interviewed four people today for absenteeism. They are all sorry and will try and do better—we hope!

About the business, sorry I was laying down the law, just you folks do what you like, whatever is easiest for you. Don’t get het up about things, jus jog along comfortably. I’ve only got about five months to do. You know I’m looking forward to getting down to work again.

You father says he’d love to help you straighten the garden up, he says nothing would suit him better.

I shall be with Stephen to meet Evie on Saturday. I hope you have enjoyed their stay.

I love you my darling, take great cate of yourself and Anthony and I’m still your very own silly,

Johnnie xxxx 

Woolwich

2nd October 1945

My Darling,

Juat a line, though I don’t suppose you need any now you have plenty of company. And I’m very glad you have some sweetheart, particularly as it’s Russell. When Russell goes there will be a space of less than two weeks and your parents will be along, then you’ll come up here, then three weeks and I’ll be home on leave.

Do you want me to push my leave as near Christmas as possible to take it at the end of November and in this connection are you coming up to London or am I to go to Minehead? It looks as though I shall get Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. I think it would be preferable if you came up here.

I got browned off with my battledress today and went along to the Quartermaster’s store and have effected an exchange, then I dumped the stuff at the Regimental Tailors’. As I worked an exchange, the only cost incurred will be that of the alterations so I hope to look a bit more respectable.

I went to see the specialist today and got the “pay off.” Well, it’s perfectly all right now and I’lll not have to attend any more massage.

This notepaper is Russell’s and it’s very handy. I hope he’ll get me some more.

Well, it’s about five thirty and time I was on my way. Oh, will you ask Russell to bring back my army pullover, it saves wearing an overcoat.

Au revoir, my sweetheart.

All my love is yours and Anthony’s.

Be good and take care

And I’m still your very own,

Johnnie xxxx

Letter 1st October 1945

Wharncliffe Gardens

Saturday

Darling,

It was a most upsetting phone call last night. Why were you silent? Why couldn’t you tell me straight out? Why didn’t your mother tell me? Are you all aftraid of what I might do? Do I generally do things that distress you?

Your mother is going to the Dumb Friends’ League tomorrow and Russell will bring the result with him on Tuesday. He will leave Paddington on the 10.40 which gets to Minehead before 4pm I gather, though no one seems quite sure.

Your mother says she’ll have Jake up here for you till he’s better. You must decide what’s best. She says till Russell arrives give him Yeast-Vite tablets.

Before we drop the subject it would seem to me that you worry more about my reactions to the dog’s illness than to the dog, whereas I’m conccerned with your distress not the dog’s, and that with these hysterical turns he may hurt you or Anthony. Of course I’ve never seen Jake hysterical. He may be quite harmless, in which case I’ve nothing to worry about. You know, there is something wrong. even cruel, about close in-breeding that develops the handsome dogs at the expense of their health.

I had a letter fromm Girlie yesterday. Ray is out and is coming to London to be demobbed on Tuesday. Anyway he’s going to ring me and I hope to see him and tell him about the difficulty of getting myself out etc., I ‘ll let you know all the stuff when I get it.

Oh., Darling, while I think of it please look up my Driving Licence so that I can try and get it renewed.

I’ve just been to church with your mother and Russell. It was Harvest Thanksgiving and was almost like old times. Among other we met was Mrs.Carmen. Her son is seven years old and she didmc know what school he should go to. Of course I said “Boarding School” but she was quite sure she couldn’t stand it but was definitely concerned that I thought so. I bet he’s a proper “only boy”. Of course she asked after you and Anthony as did everyone else. We also saw Mrs.Roe and your mother and I consider that she has definite designs on Maurice and David.

I had a sore throat on Friday and it has been developed into a slight chill. I think I successfully broke it up by aspirin treatment on Friday and Saturday nights.

I managed to get a tablet of Wright’s Coal Tar Soap for your hands and another that your mother got on my coupons.

Well it’s time I went to bed as it was late last night.

Goodnight my sweetheart. Take great care. And I don’t want to hear you sobbing over the phone again.

All my love is yours my Darling, and Anthony’s.

I love you and I’m your own,

Johnnie xxxx

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